B y  P e r s i a  L a w s o n

A 4 Month 1:1 Coaching Container For High-Achieving Women Who Are Ready To Be As Successful At Love As They Are At Work



BELIEVE IT OR NOT, IT ISN’T A BAD TIME TO BE A WOMAN.

We’ve got more freedom, choice and opportunity available to us than ever before, and the ability to create success and wealth on our own terms looks like it’s set to continue on its upward trajectory.

From 2015-2020, the number of women in C-suite positions grew by 17-21%.

The number of UK businesses currently owned by women is 32.37%, highlighting a remarkable shift from four years ago, when just 17% of founders were female.

Women are climbing the career ladder and building businesses at faster rates now than ever before...

BUT THERE IS AN UNDENIABLE CORRELATION BETWEEN CAREER SUCCESS 
AND A LACK OF ROMANTIC FULFILMENT.

Recently, I surveyed my audience of single, high-achieving women, and was equal parts fascinated and frustrated by the responses I received.

Here are the exact words of 3 participants in the study:
“I’m successful in my career, friends and family etc. and am generally a bit of a boss, but my love life feels embarrassing and is my Achilles heel.”
“I’m nailing work, but romance is a DISASTER.”
“I feel I’m successful in friendships, family, career, but in terms of a romantic relationship, I seem to struggle, and I’m out of answers. I’m obviously missing something.”
Maybe you relate?

If you do, you're not alone...





Maybe you relate?

If you do, you're not alone...

























THE PROPORTION OF  WOMEN WHO NEVER HAVE CHILDREN 
HAS DOUBLED IN A GENERATION.

We all know that marriage rates are rapidly declining, too, as divorce rates are doing the opposite.

But when I asked my audience of single, high-achieving women what their dream romantic scenario for their future was, the majority simply put:

"Marriage with kids" (or a version of this).

They want to find a partner, and (usually) they want to procreate with them… but something is getting in the way. There’s an obstacle they’re facing that they aren’t able to overcome…

NOW, MAYBE YOUR VERSION OF ROMANTIC SUCCESS DOESN’T LOOK LIKE A 2.4 FAMILY UNIT…

  • Maybe you see marriage as nothing more than a piece of paper, but legalities aside, dream of finding someone to grow old with
  • Maybe you don’t want children, but hope for a partner with which you can do life
  • Maybe you long to buy a house and make it a home, of cohabiting with someone you love truly and deeply
  • ​Maybe ‘settling down’ feels tying to you, but you yearn to travel the world with your significant other
  • ​Maybe your biggest goal is to meet a match who is comfortable and confident around your family and friends, who’s as playful as they are fun
  • ​Or maybe your vision for the future is for your partner to be as successful in their own right as you are, with their own passions and purpose
Whatever you crave, know that you can be fully satisfied romantically if you do the necessary INTERNAL work on your love life. In fact, it’s the only way to see external results.


THE PROPORTION OF WOMEN WHO NEVER HAVE CHILDREN 
HAS DOUBLED IN A GENERATION.

We all know that marriage rates are rapidly declining, too, as divorce rates are doing the opposite.

But when I asked my audience of single, high-achieving women what their dream romantic scenario for their future was, the majority simply put:

"Marriage with kids" (or a version of this).

They want to find a partner, and (usually) they want to procreate with them… but something is getting in the way. There’s an obstacle they’re facing that they aren’t able to overcome…

NOW, MAYBE YOUR VERSION OF ROMANTIC SUCCESS DOESN’T LOOK LIKE A 2.4 FAMILY UNIT…

  • Maybe you see marriage as nothing more than a piece of paper, but legalities aside, dream of finding someone to grow old with
  • Maybe you don’t want children, but hope for a partner with which you can do life
  • Maybe you long to buy a house and make it a home, of cohabiting with someone you love truly and deeply
  • ​Maybe ‘settling down’ feels tying to you, but you yearn to travel the world with your significant other
  • ​Maybe your biggest goal is to meet a match who is comfortable and confident around your family and friends, who’s as playful as they are fun
  • ​Or maybe your vision for the future is for your partner to be as successful in their own right as you are, with their own passions and purpose
Whatever you crave, know that you can be fully satisfied romantically if you do the necessary INTERNAL work on your love life. In fact, it’s the only way to see external results.

PROFESSIONAL PRAISE FOR PERSIA'S WORK

“It has been incredible to witness Persia step into her power as a leader for a new generation of seekers. Her commitment to love and service is divine. This woman is a beautiful guide and mentor for us all!”

Gabby Bernstein
 Author, Speaker and Coach

“Persia is a super smart young woman and provides a fresh, intelligent perspective on the issues that so many Gen Y-ers face today. I have to say that when you speak to her, you get how much this matters to her – her passion and dedication to her work is truly inspiring.”

Dr Linda Papadopoulos
Psychologist, Broadcaster, Author

“Persia is one of the most insightful people I know. She has huge personal experience when it comes to matters of love, life and relationships and you’ll always find her ready to share her super-insight in order to help others. I can’t think of anyone better to be a love coach.”

Harriet Jones
Deputy Editor, Brides Magazine

“Refreshingly honest, raw and relatable, Persia really knows her stuff when it comes to dating and relationships and is trailblazing a path for those ready to learn how to find and nurture real, soulful love.”


Sadie Frost
Producer, Actress, Designer

PROFESSIONAL PRAISE FOR PERSIA'S WORK

Gabby Bernstein
 Author, Speaker and Coach

“It has been incredible to witness Persia step into her power as a leader for a new generation of seekers. Her commitment to love and service is divine. This woman is a beautiful guide and mentor for us all!”

Dr Linda Papadopoulos
Psychologist, Broadcaster, Author

“Persia is a super smart young woman and provides a fresh, intelligent perspective on the issues that so many Gen Y-ers face today. I have to say that when you speak to her, you get how much this matters to her – her passion and dedication to her work is truly inspiring.”

Harriet Jones
Deputy Editor, Brides Magazine

“Persia is one of the most insightful people I know. She has huge personal experience when it comes to matters of love, life and relationships and you’ll always find her ready to share her super-insight in order to help others. I can’t think of anyone better to be a love coach.”

Sadie Frost
Producer, Actress, Designer

“Refreshingly honest, raw and relatable, Persia really knows her stuff when it comes to dating and relationships and is trailblazing a path for those ready to learn how to find and nurture real, soulful love.”


HERE LIES THE CRUX OF THE PROBLEM

I’ve worked with many high-achieving women over the years, from doctors to authors and speakers, educators, coaches, entrepreneurs, business owners, even musicians, film and theatre actresses and TV personalities…

...and what many of these women have in common, is that they’ve been duped into drawing the logical, rational conclusion that a great relationship can be attained and sustained by following a simple (albeit strict) formula:
1. Decide you want a man.

2. Look around you to find one that’s close enough to your dream guy.

3. Do everything in your power to make said suitor yours.
4. And then make it your mission to turn him into a version of himself that’s more attractive to and appropriate for you.

BUT...

WHEN THIS THEORY IS PUT INTO PRACTICE, 
THIS IS WHAT TRANSPIRES...

  • The woman instigating the lion’s share of communication (calling/texting first).
  • ​The woman manoeuvering for dates (either directly or indirectly) and then taking the lead with planning them, too.
  • ​The woman using sex as a tactic to gain the man’s attention and, fingers crossed, interest.
  • ​The woman forcefully driving the direction of the relationship (i.e. initiating the ‘commitment’ chat ASAP).
  • ​The woman eventually breaking up with the man because he’s a useless shit (a.k.a. can never and will never be who or what the woman wants him to be).
Simply put: what so many of the single high-achieving women I encounter seem to be missing when it comes to dating and relationships is that the approach that helps a woman succeed at work is NOT the one that will help her succeed in love.

(But, it’s all they know.)

It’s time to work smarter instead of harder.

It’s time to learn where you SHOULD be investing your time and energy so that you start seeing results. (Spoiler alert: it’s in yourself, not him.)


HERE LIES THE CRUX OF THE PROBLEM

I’ve worked with many high-achieving women over the years, from doctors to authors and speakers, educators, coaches, entrepreneurs, business owners, even musicians, film and theatre actresses and TV personalities…

...and what many of these women have in common, is that they’ve been duped into drawing the logical, rational conclusion that a great relationship can be attained and sustained by following a simple (albeit strict) formula:
  • Decide you want a man.
  • Look around you to find one that’s close enough to your dream guy.
  • Do everything in your power to make said suitor yours.
  • ​And then make it your mission turn him into a version of himself that’s more attractive to and appropriate for you.

BUT...

WHEN THIS THEORY IS PUT INTO PRACTICE, 
THIS IS WHAT TRANSPIRES..

  • The woman instigating the lion’s share of communication (calling/texting first).
  • ​The woman manoeuvering for dates (either directly or indirectly) and then taking the lead with planning them, too.
  • ​The woman using sex as a tactic to gain the man’s attention and, finger’s crossed, interest.
  • ​The woman forcefully driving the direction of the relationship (i.e. initiating the ‘commitment’ chat ASAP).
  • ​The woman eventually breaking up with the man because he’s a useless shit (a.k.a. can never and will never be who or what the woman wants him to be).
Simply put: what so many of the single high-achieving women I encounter seem to be missing when it comes to dating and relationships is that the approach that helps a woman succeed at work is NOT the one that will help her succeed in love.

(But, it’s all they know.)

It’s time to work smarter instead of harder.

It’s time to learn where you SHOULD be investing your time and energy so that you start seeing results. (Spoiler alert: it’s in yourself, not him.)

CONSIDER WHETHER YOU'RE DOING ONE, SOME OR ALL OF THE BELOW:

  • Peacocking when on dates (a.k.a. highlighting what you believe to be your ‘strong points’ that set you apart and make you stand out from other women, your competition) - spoiler alert: this is a male behaviour.
  • ​Kittenfishing on dating apps (a less severe form of catfishing, where you present yourself in an unrealistically positive way).
  • ​Flexting (digitally boasting/bragging about all you’ve achieved before you meet people in real life)...
...no shame in any of these btw. Most single, high-achieving women do all of the above - they believe they have to work hard at marketing and selling themselves, usually because their years of being unlucky in love have knocked their confidence.

In fact, they’ve probably been told they ARE lucky by friends who aren’t as successful in their careers or businesses.

They’ve probably heard “if only that would happen for me, I’d love to be as high flying/big balling as you are”.

But although they’re complimented and congratulated, they can’t help but feel like they’ve got nothing to celebrate.

Because they feel empty.

They feel disheartened and disappointed that whilst their life is pretty fucking great, they have no one to share it with.

They feel like the ONLY one in their friendship group who isn’t engaged or married.

They feel embarrassed and ashamed at family gatherings when their ‘well-meaning’ aunties and uncles remind them that the clock is ticking if they want to have kids.
Some other behaviours I see among the women I work with are:
  • Hiding behind their work successes to conceal the sadness they feel at their lack of romantic connection.
  • Devoting the majority of their time and energy towards their career progression rather than their love lives.
  • Talking about work, or thinking about work so much that they aren’t able to practice presence on dates.
  • ​Blaming their singledom on the fact that men are just intimidated by their success.
  • ​Shaming the men they date for not being as industrious as they are.
  • ​Wishing the guys they date would take the lead more, but equally, not surrendering that responsibility as they insist on paying for everything, to feel empowered, in control, and also - let’s be honest - wanted and needed...
...the list goes on.

CONSIDER WHETHER YOU'RE DOING ONE, SOME OR ALL OF THE BELOW:

  • Peacocking when on dates (a.k.a. highlighting what you believe to be your ‘strong points’ that set you apart and make you stand out from other women, your competition) - FYI: this is a male behaviour.
  • ​Kittenfishing on dating apps (a less severe form of catfishing, where you present yourself in an unrealistically positive way).
  • ​Flexting (digitally boasting/bragging about all you’ve achieved before you meet people in real life)...
...no shame in any of these btw. Most single, high-achieving women do all of the above - they believe they have to work hard at marketing and selling themselves, usually because their years of being unlucky in love have knocked their confidence.

In fact, they’ve probably been told they ARE lucky by friends who aren’t as successful in their careers or businesses.

They’ve probably heard “if only that would happen for me, I’d love to be as high flying/big balling as you are”.

But although they’re complimented and congratulated, they can’t help but feel like they’ve got nothing to celebrate.

Because they feel empty.

They feel disheartened and disappointed that whilst their life is pretty fucking great, they have no one to share it with.

They feel like the ONLY one in their friendship group who isn’t engaged or married.

They feel embarrassed and ashamed at family gatherings when their ‘well-meaning’ aunties and uncles remind them that the clock is ticking if they want to have kids.
Some other behaviours I see among the women I work with are:
  • Hiding behind their work successes to conceal the sadness they feel at their lack of romantic connection.
  • Devoting the majority of their time and energy towards their career progression rather than their love lives.
  • Talking about work, or thinking about work so much that they aren’t able to practice presence on dates.
  • ​Blaming their singledom on the fact that men are just intimidated by their success.
  • ​Shaming the men they date for not being as industrious as they are.
  • ​Wishing the guys they date would take the lead more, but equally, not surrendering that responsibility as they insist on paying for everything, to feel empowered, in control, and also - let’s be honest - wanted and needed...
...the list goes on.

CONTRARY TO POPULAR BELIEF, YOUR SUCCESS AT WORK DOESN’T HAVE TO BE AT THE EXPENSE OF  YOUR ROMANTIC SUCCESS.

I HAVE PUT TOGETHER A COACHING CONTAINER THAT WALKS YOU THROUGH EVERY STEP YOU NEED TO TAKE TO BE A WOMAN WHO HAS BOTH, TO BE A WOMAN WHO HAS IT ALL...

INTRODUCING...

THE LOVE COACHING PROGRAM FOR SUCCESSFUL CAREER AND BUSINESS WOMEN THAT’S BEEN TRIED, TESTED AND PROVEN TO GET EXTRAORDINARY RESULTS:

"The Love for Leaders programme turned me inside out. I cannot even begin to describe how much I changed over the four months the programme took to complete. I was not prepared for this level of transformation! I am in the best place I have ever been in my life – not just emotionally, but mentally and physically, too. This programme changes your entire life because it changes your very being. I truly did not know this feeling existed. I am totally and utterly at peace with who I am and where I am in my life. 

Before I started this programme I had spent years in and out of therapy, trying to figure out why I was so unhappy in my relationships and where I kept going wrong. My professional career was soaring. I was at the top of my game. But my romantic life was a train crash. I had had enough and knew I needed to do something radically different. While I do feel that the therapeutic work I undertook prior to Love for Leaders helped me in that ultimately it made me open to even considering a programme like this, none of it gave me the results I was seeking. All of my therapists were able to tell me what I needed to improve, but not one of them were able to tell me how to actually do this. Only Love for Leaders was able to do this. The programme gave me the tools I needed to build the life I was seeking.

I realised whilst doing the programme that I had just been running on autopilot for years. I had never actually stopped to consider what I wanted out of life. I was repeating the same relationships over and over again with the same hot and cold men. I hopped from one relationship to the next, never stopping and taking stock of what had gone wrong, never stopping to process my feelings and, most importantly, never examining my role in these relationship breakdowns. This programme shows you the role you play and as uncomfortable as that is to face, it was what brought about the biggest change for me. 

I honestly cannot recommend this programme enough. I would pay ten times the price it costs to be where I am now. Do it. It will change your life." 

Mary-Kate

"I was sceptical about working with Persia in the Love For Leaders program as I had been single for 8 years (yes 8!) and had pretty much tried everything with no success. But I gave myself a talking to and knew I'd regret it if I didn't try. 

I found the sessions hard at times as it brought back some painful times but really enjoyed the 'homework', new techniques and ways of thinking. I felt my behaviour and my thinking starting to change quite quickly and although I stopped dating throughout the time I was actively doing the program, when I did meet men out and about, the way I spoke to them and the way I acted changed. I stopped putting up with creeps and awful messages, recognising the red flags and removing myself from the situation - something I'd always struggled to do as I was very much a 'people pleaser' and didn't want to risk anyone not liking me.

During the summer, mid-pandemic, I went on a few dates with two guys - both of whom were lovely and really liked me but I just knew they weren't right. In the past I'd struggled to get a second date but with both of them I got to date 4 and they both wanted to continue seeing me - this felt amazing even though neither worked out in the end. I knew I had changed, I was finally being myself! I had stopped trying to be what someone else wanted me to be and that was being reflected in my dating. I don't think I realised what an impact Persia had had on me until that point. 

Then in November 2020 it happened. I met him. And it was exactly how Persia had told me it would be. It was scary because it was so easy! I had no doubts about how he felt about me, there were no games and no red flags. All the things she told me I would feel, were exactly what I was feeling. All the things I'd manifested and hoped for were happening. We're now four months into our relationship so it's still early days but I just know deep down that I've found what I was looking for. 

I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. THANK YOU Persia." 

Laura

HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

My work centres around 3 pillars: healing, attraction and commitment.
These pillars are the foundations upon which all our work together will build.

>>> Heal

As a high-achieving woman myself, I’m acutely aware of my natural impulse to leapfrog the fundamental basics of a thing in order to fast-track my way to the shinier, more exciting prize that lies beyond it. But nowhere has fixating on the future at the expense of enjoying where I am right now been more detrimental than in my love life.

I’d picture myself walking down the aisle towards the man I was now sat facing in a bar (on a first date, might I add), before I even knew how he took his morning coffee. I obsessed over attracting the relationship of my dreams, without first having understood why the last relationship ‘of my dreams’ hadn’t worked out.

I spent what felt like a lifetime trying to run before I could even crawl (never mind walk) when it came to romance. But the faster I tried to get to a place I had no business being in just yet, the more rapidly the walls of my unresolved pain and trauma came tumbling down around me.

The truth is that we can never outrun grief, trauma or heartbreak. We must feel it to heal it, and heal it to be free of it. It took me four and a half years from the day I started working through my many relationship-based issues before I met the man I’ve now committed to spending the rest of my life with. That’s how long it took me to learn the lessons I needed to learn, to heal the wounds I needed to heal, and to become the person I needed to become if I wanted to get (and to keep) the kind of relationship I’d always longed for, but didn’t know how to be inside of. 

Romance is a journey – it’s about unravelling the infinite potential of the human mind, heart and soul in collaboration with another sentient being. It is an ever-unfolding experience; there is no final destination to arrive at. There is, however, always a starting point: wherever you are right now.

From this place, you must be willing to look at the beliefs, patterns and behaviours that have blocked you from receiving and expressing love in a way that actually feels good to you and the other person. You must be willing to release the pain, before you can let in the pleasure. You must be willing to heal your heartbreak, before you can attract your soulmate.

>>> Attract

The single greatest block that prevents us from making our dream romantic scenario a reality is that our current identity is not yet a match for that level of relationship.

Think about it: if you were in a healthy, happy partnership with the love of your life, would you be wasting your time analysing lukewarm WhatsApp messages from a guy you’ve only been on two dates with, mining for non-existent subtext? Would you spend too many hours scrolling through dating apps (instead of being present in your other relationships or work life), manically willing someone to match with you so that you can feel that transient jolt of validation, one that will evaporate as fast as it materialised? Would you have sex with a stranger you don’t even fancy, just to remind yourself that you’re still desirable? Would you make a real song and dance about being ‘the only single one left in the ENTIRE WORLD’ every time you saw a post on social media announcing a new engagement? Would you get wasted and barrage your ex with texts and calls because you’d rather suffer the inevitable humiliation than the sting of loneliness? No, you would not.

You cannot get an adult relationship by behaving like a love-struck teenager. Convincing yourself that you’ll show up differently in love once you have a partner is not only naïve, it’s selfish. A romantic partner is a human being, not a magic pill to fix your lack of self-worth. You’ve got to do that all by yourself. 

A solid relationship requires patience, self-awareness and maturity. It’s a result of two whole beings coming together and recognising that they do not need one another, they desire one another. And, to be blunt, if you’re not willing to put in the work it takes to become ready for the great relationship you say you want, then you don’t really deserve it. 

I know that sounds harsh, but in a culture that fetishises motivational smack-downs in the form of #realtalk and #noexcuses and #hustleandgrind when it comes to our career, in the field of dating and love, we seriously need to grow a backbone. 

We need to stop saying that getting a relationship means EVERYTHING to us, unless we are actually prepared to take responsibility for the results we’re currently getting in our love life. Unless we are actually prepared to get out of our comfort zone and start cleaning up the unhelpful thought processes and language we use to describe our romantic status. Unless we are actually prepared to stop looking outside of ourselves for the partner we want to get, and start looking inside of ourselves for the partner we want to be. 

Make no mistake: attracting a great relationship is not a question of luck. It’s a question of whether or not our identity is a match for it.

>>> Commit

In order for two human beings to live together in relative harmony, some uncomfortable work needs to happen. You wouldn’t expect to do well in the Olympics with no prior training, so why on earth would you expect the emotional and romantic equivalent to be any different?

Committed love requires discipline. Because, when all’s said and done, it’s not the courtship that’s hard (unless you happen to be dating an emotionally unavailable arsehole). It’s the bit that comes after.

For me, the first three months with someone new were always magical, but the moment the passion and excitement started to wear off, I mentally and emotionally checked out of the relationship, certain that real love would be waiting for me in the arms of someone else. This is a pattern I’ve seen time and time again in my love-coaching clients, too.

I defended my freedom with ferocity, convincing myself that long-term monogamy would never, ever feel as exhilarating as those early electric kisses with someone I probably shouldn’t be kissing. So, if being in a committed relationship meant that I’d have to deny myself the pleasures to which I’d become accustomed (flirting/sleeping with whomever I wanted, whenever I wanted), then there were only two options, as far as I could see: end it before it got too serious, or lie. I tended to favour the second option; it took less courage. 

The journey I had to go on from that head and heart space to where I am today – engaged to my partner of over six years in a relationship that both parties want to be inside of in equal amounts – has been excruciating at times. And euphoric at others. 

Where love once felt to me like a frenzied tango, with both partners hell-bent on leading, it’s now evolved into more of a jumbled, sloppy waltz in which toes are regularly trodden on and egos get momentarily bruised, but in which we soon fall back in step with one another just long enough to feel like we’re floating.

Have you ever felt like you’re floating in love? I’ll tell you one thing: it’s far from dull.

HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

My work centres around 3 pillars: healing, attraction and commitment.
These pillars are the foundations upon which all our work together will build.

>>> Heal

As a high-achieving woman myself, I’m acutely aware of my natural impulse to leapfrog the fundamental basics of a thing in order to fast-track my way to the shinier, more exciting prize that lies beyond it. But nowhere has fixating on the future at the expense of enjoying where I am right now been more detrimental than in my love life.

I’d picture myself walking down the aisle towards the man I was now sat facing in a bar (on a first date, might I add), before I even knew how he took his morning coffee. I obsessed over attracting the relationship of my dreams, without first having understood why the last relationship ‘of my dreams’ hadn’t worked out.

I spent what felt like a lifetime trying to run before I could even crawl (never mind walk) when it came to romance. But the faster I tried to get to a place I had no business being in just yet, the more rapidly the walls of my unresolved pain and trauma came tumbling down around me.

The truth is that we can never outrun grief, trauma or heartbreak. We must feel it to heal it, and heal it to be free of it. It took me four and a half years from the day I started working through my many relationship-based issues before I met the man I’ve now committed to spending the rest of my life with. That’s how long it took me to learn the lessons I needed to learn, to heal the wounds I needed to heal, and to become the person I needed to become if I wanted to get (and to keep) the kind of relationship I’d always longed for, but didn’t know how to be inside of. 

Romance is a journey – it’s about unravelling the infinite potential of the human mind, heart and soul in collaboration with another sentient being. It is an ever-unfolding experience; there is no final destination to arrive at. There is, however, always a starting point: wherever you are right now.

From this place, you must be willing to look at the beliefs, patterns and behaviours that have blocked you from receiving and expressing love in a way that actually feels good to you and the other person. You must be willing to release the pain, before you can let in the pleasure. You must be willing to heal your heartbreak, before you can attract your soulmate.

>>> Attract

The single greatest block that prevents us from making our dream romantic scenario a reality is that our current identity is not yet a match for that level of relationship.

Think about it: if you were in a healthy, happy partnership with the love of your life, would you be wasting your time analysing lukewarm WhatsApp messages from a guy you’ve only been on two dates with, mining for non-existent subtext? Would you spend too many hours scrolling through dating apps (instead of being present in your other relationships or work life), manically willing someone to match with you so that you can feel that transient jolt of validation, one that will evaporate as fast as it materialised? Would you have sex with a stranger you don’t even fancy, just to remind yourself that you’re still desirable? Would you make a real song and dance about being ‘the only single one left in the ENTIRE WORLD’ every time you saw a post on social media announcing a new engagement? Would you get wasted and barrage your ex with texts and calls because you’d rather suffer the inevitable humiliation than the sting of loneliness? No, you would not.

You cannot get an adult relationship by behaving like a love-struck teenager. Convincing yourself that you’ll show up differently in love once you have a partner is not only naïve, it’s selfish. A romantic partner is a human being, not a magic pill to fix your lack of self-worth. You’ve got to do that all by yourself. 

A solid relationship requires patience, self-awareness and maturity. It’s a result of two whole beings coming together and recognising that they do not need one another, they desire one another. And, to be blunt, if you’re not willing to put in the work it takes to become ready for the great relationship you say you want, then you don’t really deserve it. 

I know that sounds harsh, but in a culture that fetishises motivational smack-downs in the form of #realtalk and #noexcuses and #hustleandgrind when it comes to our career, in the field of dating and love, we seriously need to grow a backbone. 

We need to stop saying that getting a relationship means EVERYTHING to us, unless we are actually prepared to take responsibility for the results we’re currently getting in our love life. Unless we are actually prepared to get out of our comfort zone and start cleaning up the unhelpful thought processes and language we use to describe our romantic status. Unless we are actually prepared to stop looking outside of ourselves for the partner we want to get, and start looking inside of ourselves for the partner we want to be. 

Make no mistake: attracting a great relationship is not a question of luck. It’s a question of whether or not our identity is a match for it.

>>> Commit

In order for two human beings to live together in relative harmony, some uncomfortable work needs to happen. You wouldn’t expect to do well in the Olympics with no prior training, so why on earth would you expect the emotional and romantic equivalent to be any different?

Committed love requires discipline. Because, when all’s said and done, it’s not the courtship that’s hard (unless you happen to be dating an emotionally unavailable arsehole). It’s the bit that comes after.

For me, the first three months with someone new were always magical, but the moment the passion and excitement started to wear off, I mentally and emotionally checked out of the relationship, certain that real love would be waiting for me in the arms of someone else. This is a pattern I’ve seen time and time again in my love-coaching clients, too.

I defended my freedom with ferocity, convincing myself that long-term monogamy would never, ever feel as exhilarating as those early electric kisses with someone I probably shouldn’t be kissing. So, if being in a committed relationship meant that I’d have to deny myself the pleasures to which I’d become accustomed (flirting/sleeping with whomever I wanted, whenever I wanted), then there were only two options, as far as I could see: end it before it got too serious, or lie. I tended to favour the second option; it took less courage. 

The journey I had to go on from that head and heart space to where I am today – engaged to my partner of over six years in a relationship that both parties want to be inside of in equal amounts – has been excruciating at times. And euphoric at others. 

Where love once felt to me like a frenzied tango, with both partners hell-bent on leading, it’s now evolved into more of a jumbled, sloppy waltz in which toes are regularly trodden on and egos get momentarily bruised, but in which we soon fall back in step with one another just long enough to feel like we’re floating.

Have you ever felt like you’re floating in love? I’ll tell you one thing: it’s far from dull.


SEE WHAT PREVIOUS CLIENTS HAVE TO SAY:











What's Included

When you coach with me 1:1, you'll receive:
  • 7x fortnightly, hour-long coaching sessions.
  • Access to my flagship digital program, Get Your Soulmate - which we’ll work through together on a more deep and intimate level:
  • Module 1: Understand Why You're Stuck. The 3-Step Process That Reveals The Real Reason Your Love Life’s Not Working.
  • Module 2: Own Your Shadow Side. How To Eliminate The Destructive Behaviours And Limiting Beliefs That Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships.
  • Module 3: Connect To Your Power. The Single Revelation That Will Set You Up For Romantic Success.
  • ​Module 4: Release And Heal The Past. How To Let Go Of What No Longer Serves You And Create Space For Your Ideal Relationship.
  • ​Module 5: Increase Your Confidence And Self-Worth. 3 Strategies That Will Stop You From Settling And Instantly Enhance Your Magnetism.
  • ​Module 6: Create Your Romantic Vision. 5 Important Questions That Will Help You Attract Real Love.
  • ​Module 7: Make Your Dream Come To Life. The Secret To Getting The Healthy, Committed, Soulful Relationship You Deserve.
  • As part of your GYS access, you’ll also receive a ton of valuable bonuses, including 8x dating and relationship masterclasses with guest experts, and 24/7 lifetime access so you can join in each and every live round of the group program.
  • Video walkie talkie access to me throughout the whole 4 months, so you can message me between sessions if you’re struggling and feel fully supported every single step of the way.
  • An in-person 3-course meal at a Soho House in London* with Persia to celebrate your transformation over a glass of champagne. 

    *If you’re unable or unwilling to travel, this can be exchanged for a 1 hour Zoom call.

LOVE FROM PAST LEADERS:

What's Included

When you coach with me 1:1, you'll receive:
  • 7x fortnightly, hour-long coaching sessions.
  • Access to my flagship digital program, Get Your Soulmate - which we’ll work through together on a more deep and intimate level:
  • Module 1: Understand Why You're Stuck. The 3-Step Process That Reveals The Real Reason Your Love Life’s Not Working.
  • Module 2: Own Your Shadow Side. How To Eliminate The Destructive Behaviours And Limiting Beliefs That Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships.
  • Module 3: Connect To Your Power. The Single Revelation That Will Set You Up For Romantic Success.
  • ​Module 4: Release And Heal The Past. How To Let Go Of What No Longer Serves You And Create Space For Your Ideal Relationship.
  • ​Module 5: Increase Your Confidence And Self-Worth. 3 Strategies That Will Stop You From Settling And Instantly Enhance Your Magnetism.
  • ​Module 6: Create Your Romantic Vision. 5 Important Questions That Will Help You Attract Real Love.
  • ​Module 7: Make Your Dream Come To Life. The Secret To Getting The Healthy, Committed, Soulful Relationship You Deserve.
  • As part of your GYS access, you’ll also receive a ton of valuable bonuses, including 8x dating and relationship masterclasses with guest experts, and 24/7 lifetime access so you can join in each and every live round of the group program.
  • Video walkie talkie access to me throughout the whole 4 months, so you can message me between sessions if you’re struggling and feel fully supported every single step of the way.
  • An in-person 3-course meal at a Soho House in London* with Persia to celebrate your transformation over a glass of champagne. 

    *If you’re unable or unwilling to travel, this can be exchanged for a 1 hour Zoom call.

The Investment

PAY IN FULL

(Best Value, Saving £1,000)

£10,000+VAT

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4 monthly payments of £2750+VAT


The Investment

PAY IN FULL

(Best Value, Saving £1,000)

£10,000+VAT

PAY MONTHLY

(Most Flexible)

4 monthly payments of £2750+VAT

BUT HERE’S THE THING

Whilst I’ll take you through my signature process that’s been tried, tested and proven to work with myself and countless clients, I recognise that one size definitely doesn’t fit all, and so I make sure to tailor the coaching according to your unique needs.

You can rest assured that you’ll be getting something as unique as your conditioning: the container is designed with the patterns we want to disrupt in mind, in order to ensure you get the maximum possible return on your investment like these women did...





Persia Lawson is ‘one of the UK’s most successful love coaches’ according to the Times magazine.















MEET YOUR MENTOR

Persia Lawson is ‘one of the UK’s most successful love coaches’ according to the Times magazine.

Having once been a serial cheater and obsessive love addict, love coach Persia Lawson is proud to now be in a healthy, committed relationship and is passionate about helping women heal and improve their own love lives via her online coaching programs.

She is the author of Love is Coming: How to Find Real Love in a Superficial World and the creator of the top 10 podcast Love is Coming, as well as a motivational speaker.
Trained in cognitive behavioural therapy, reiki and addiction studies, Persia has supported thousands of women to radically transform their love lives from the inside-out, via her online programmes and coaching practice, gaining her the status of ‘irreverent British guru’ by Marie Claire magazine and being described by Sadie Frost as ‘refreshingly honest, raw and relatable’.

Persia also co-founded the pioneering positive lifestyle movement Addictive Daughter, and is the co-author of The Inner Fix (Hodder & Stoughton, 2016). Her work has been featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan, the BBC, the Telegraph, You magazine and the Evening Standard, among others.

A trained wedding celebrant, Persia is thrilled to officiate the weddings of her beloved clients. She lives between the Surrey Hills and London with her fiancé, Joe, and their golden cockapoo puppy, Reggae.

MORE PRAISE FOR PERSIA

“Through Persia's tips, tools and stories, which are as entertaining as they are educational, she reveals everything you need to know about healing, attraction and commitment so that you can not only meet your match, but do so far more quickly and easily than you would have done on your own. Plus you'll finally feel seen, heard and understood. She gets it. She just gets it.”

Ashley James
Dating & Empowerment Coach

"Persia helped me reframe my entire mindset around my relationships. It was brutal, but one of the most liberating experiences of my life. Through her guidance, patience, and wisdom, I was able to work through all of the patterns around men that I’d had since I can remember. I can honestly say that through my work with Persia, I became a completely different woman."

Mel Wells
Author, Sex & Business Coach

“I’m a professional copywriter, and yet I can’t put into words how much working with Persia changed not just my love life but each and every other area of my life too. This newfound self assurance I gained even helped me in my business, most notably, I bagged a book deal with Hay House! I am now helping more people and making more money than I ever have before."

Dr Vanessa McIntosh
Hay House Author, Agency Owner

"Thanks to Persia, love really is coming, once and for all. As a woman who walks her talk, she's trusted by people the world over to help them find and keep love. Healer of heartbreak and lighter of inner fires - she is leading the way to finding love in the modern world!"



Lucy Sheridan
The Comparison Coach

MORE PRAISE FOR PERSIA

Ashley James
Dating & Empowerment Coach

“Through Persia's tips, tools and stories, which are as entertaining as they are educational, she reveals everything you need to know about healing, attraction and commitment so that you can not only meet your match, but do so far more quickly and easily than you would have done on your own. Plus you'll finally feel seen, heard and understood. She gets it. She just gets it.”

Mel Wells
Author, Sex & Business Coach

"Persia helped me reframe my entire mindset around my relationships. It was brutal, but one of the most liberating experiences of my life. Through her guidance, patience, and wisdom, I was able to work through all of the patterns around men that I’d had since I can remember. I can honestly say that through my work with Persia, I became a completely different woman."

Dr Vanessa McIntosh
Hay House Author, Agency Owner

“I’m a professional copywriter, and yet I can’t put into words how much working with Persia changed not just my love life but each and every other area of my life too. This newfound self assurance I gained even helped me in my business, most notably, I bagged a book deal with Hay House! I am now helping more people and making more money than I ever have before."

Lucy Sheridan
The Comparison Coach

"Thanks to Persia, love really is coming, once and for all. As a woman who walks her talk, she's trusted by people the world over to help them find and keep love. Healer of heartbreak and lighter of inner fires - she is leading the way to finding love in the modern world!"



Hi, I'm Persia
...an Author, Speaker & Love Coach passionate about helping YOU find (and keep) a healthy, soulful, lasting relationship in the chaos of the modern dating world.

Having once been a serial cheater and obsessive love addict, I’m proud to now be in a great relationship that inspires and challenges me daily (and isn’t the least bit boring, as I always feared a ‘healthy’ relationship would be).   

I’ve spent over a decade dedicated to helping women like you lead happier, more fulfilling love lives. 
Which, if you know my back story, is somewhat of a miracle.

LET ME REWIND...

As I share in Love is Coming, my parents struggled with addiction until I was about 16.

Whilst I was so grateful when they both got sober, I’d spent the majority of my life constantly surrounded by drama and chaos, so when that suddenly disappeared I went looking for it in my love life instead. 

To cut a long story short, two painful yet enlightening break-ups (and a whole lot of therapy) later…
I found myself training as a life coach and setting up a positive lifestyle movement called Addictive Daughter with a friend from drama school, to help those struggling through a ‘quarter-life crisis’, as we once had been.  

However, despite landing a book deal and being hailed “irreverent British gurus” by Marie Claire magazine, something in me knew I still had a lot of growing to do – particularly in my love life. 
As I was working on the first draft of my and my friend's book,The Inner Fix, in mid-2015, I’d been single for a year and a half (a long time for me).

During this writing period, I spent every morning meditating, journaling and getting connected through music to help heal my issues around my love life - as well as to prepare me to receive the loving, soulful relationship I’d always dreamed of having, but feared I’d never be able to sustain. 

These daily rituals also inspired me to share my desire to meet my ‘Twin Flame’ in the 'Love' chapter of The Inner Fix – a spiritual concept describing a special soul connection between two people who often experience ‘love at first sight,’ and commit to growing together in friendship & intimacy as a couple.

Two days after writing those words, I met my Twin Flame in a secret rave at Wilderness festival in Oxfordshire – and it was very much love at first sight.
Soon, I found myself in the best relationship of my life by far.
And I'm still in that relationship 6 years later (in fact, we're engaged to be married and have recently bought our first house together in the Surrey Hills just outside of London - along with a golden cockapoo puppy called Reggae!)

We also have a place in London, because we love the blend of country and city life, and get in as much international travel as possible (solo and together) - depending on the current Covid sitch!
My life today is not what I thought it would look like, but it feels better than I ever imagined it could. I feel enough. He feels enough. Our relationship feels enough. I finally feel satisfied.

As a result, I’m far more available, giving and successful in every other area of my life too, because I’m not wasting time and energy obsessing over someone who’ll never be able to give me what I want, or hurting someone because I know I’ll never be able to give them what they want.

Unexpectedly, a few months after The Inner Fix came out (and a year into my relationship with Joe), my friend and I both felt called to step back from Addictive Daughter and pursue our own individual passions in work.

I instantly knew that for me, that would be love and relationships - the area where I’ve struggled the most, but also where I’ve experienced the biggest transformation.
This brings me to you...
I want you to know that if I can have a great relationship, you can, too.
I know you can. 

Because I believe that the reason you’re really here is to grow.

I believe that when you open yourself to growth, you’ll attract the person or situation that’ll develop you the most.

I also believe that, though this process is painful and scary at times, it’s well worth sticking with if you want to experience genuine, soul-expanding love and connection.

Are you up for the challenge?
Hi, I'm Persia
...an Author, Speaker & Love Coach passionate about helping YOU find (and keep) a healthy, soulful, lasting relationship in the chaos of the modern dating world.

Having once been a serial cheater and obsessive love addict, I’m proud to now be in a great relationship that inspires and challenges me daily (and isn’t the least bit boring, as I always feared a ‘healthy’ relationship would be).   

I’ve spent over a decade dedicated to helping women like you lead happier, more fulfilling love lives. 

Which, if you know my back story, is somewhat of a miracle.

LET ME REWIND...

As I share in Love is Coming, my parents struggled with addiction until I was about 16.

Whilst I was so grateful when they both got sober, I’d spent the majority of my life constantly surrounded by drama and chaos, so when that suddenly disappeared I went looking for it in my love life instead. 

To cut a long story short, two painful yet enlightening break-ups (and a whole lot of therapy) later…
I found myself training as a life coach and setting up a positive lifestyle movement called Addictive Daughter with a friend from drama school, to help those struggling through a ‘quarter-life crisis’, as we once had been.  

However, despite landing a book deal and being hailed “irreverent British gurus” by Marie Claire magazine, something in me knew I still had a lot of growing to do – particularly in my love life. 
As I was working on the first draft of my and my friend's book,The Inner Fix, in mid-2015, I’d been single for a year and a half (a long time for me).

During this writing period, I spent every morning meditating, journaling and getting connected through music to help heal my issues around my love life - as well as to prepare me to receive the loving, soulful relationship I’d always dreamed of having, but feared I’d never be able to sustain. 

These daily rituals also inspired me to share my desire to meet my ‘Twin Flame’ in the 'Love' chapter of The Inner Fix – a spiritual concept describing a special soul connection between two people who often experience ‘love at first sight,’ and commit to growing together in friendship & intimacy as a couple.

Two days after writing those words, I met my Twin Flame in a secret rave at Wilderness festival in Oxfordshire – and it was very much love at first sight.
Soon, I found myself in the best relationship of my life by far.
And I'm still in that relationship 6 years later (in fact, we're engaged to be married and have recently bought our first house together in the Surrey Hills just outside of London - along with a golden cockapoo puppy called Reggae!)

We also have a place in London, because we love the blend of country and city life, and get in as much international travel as possible (solo and together) - depending on the current Covid sitch!
My life today is not what I thought it would look like, but it feels better than I ever imagined it could. I feel enough. He feels enough. Our relationship feels enough. I finally feel satisfied.

As a result, I’m far more available, giving and successful in every other area of my life too, because I’m not wasting time and energy obsessing over someone who’ll never be able to give me what I want, or hurting someone because I know I’ll never be able to give them what they want.

Unexpectedly, a few months after The Inner Fix came out (and a year into my relationship with Joe), my friend and I both felt called to step back from Addictive Daughter and pursue our own individual passions in work.

I instantly knew that for me, that would be love and relationships - the area where I’ve struggled the most, but also where I’ve experienced the biggest transformation.
This brings me to you...
I want you to know that if I can have a great relationship, you can, too.
I know you can. 

Because I believe that the reason you’re really here is to grow.

I believe that when you open yourself to growth, you’ll attract the person or situation that’ll develop you the most.

I also believe that, though this process is painful and scary at times, it’s well worth sticking with if you want to experience genuine, soul-expanding love and connection.

Are you up for the challenge?











AMONG MYSELF AND COUNTLESS OTHER HIGH-ACHIEVING CLIENTS, I OBSERVED 2 BIG PROBLEMS:

1. The dominance problem

​2. The subserviance problem

First up, people make the mistake of thinking they need to manipulate every move in order to assume authority over their partner and get what and where they want. This results in a lot of damaging and destructive behaviours, such as trying to control them, guilt-tripping their partner if they don’t do as they wish, or looking for evidence of them slipping up so they can be proven ‘right’.

It took me a long time to learn that when it comes to romance, really it’s the woman holding all the cards. But, because we’re so busy trying to work out what cards the man opposite us is playing, we fail to see that we’ve already got a winning hand ourselves.

Stepping into our inherent power as a woman, our FEMININE power as a woman (being open, receptive, compassionate, nurturing, creative, collaborative) creates space for a man to step into his inherent power as a man. And that, inevitably, feels really good to him.

When we women operate from a more masculine approach to dating and relationships by trying to manoeuvre and control the dynamic at every turn, we give the man no choice but to assume the feminine position. This tends not to go down so well - unless the man is looking for someone to take his mother’s place, in which case… RUN.
Next up, the subservience problem. On the flip-side, I found myself settling for less than the best, for less than I was worthy and deserving of because I believed that being out of control in romance was my fate and destiny.

Many of the high-achieving women I come across these days experience this too: they accept shitty behaviour from men that they would never tolerate from clients, colleagues or bosses.

I get why; I’ve been there. No matter how proud I felt of the life and success I was creating for myself, it was often still painful to watch the majority of my peers ticking their way through the arbitrary romantic timeline: falling in love, moving in, getting engaged, married, pregnant – you know the drill. This, coupled with society’s insistence on measuring a woman’s worth according to her relationship status - never mind being constantly reminded that our fertility is dwindling with every passing year – makes it easy to see why so many brilliant women cling to men who seem to value them even less than Gwyneth Paltrow values gluten.

If this resonates, what you need to understand is that the real issue here is not, in fact, these men who are treating you like dirt. The real issue is how YOU are showing up (or not showing up) in a romantic context that’s not only determining the quality of men that you’re attracting but also the level of respect these men have for you - and subsequently, how they behave towards you.

If you want to feel as empowered and successful in love as you do in work, then you must demonstrate the same level of self-respect in romance that you do in your career. In
other words, when it comes to love you need to decide what your bottom line is. And, if or when that bottom line is crossed, rather than trying to negotiate your way through what is clearly a no-win deal, you must have the dignity and courage to walk away. That’s what a good CEO would do.


AMONG MYSELF AND COUNTLESS OTHER HIGH-ACHIEVING CLIENTS, I OBSERVED 2 BIG PROBLEMS:

1. The dominance problem

2.​ The subserviance problem

First up, people make the mistake of thinking they need to manipulate every move in order to assume authority over their partner and get what and where they want. This results in a lot of damaging and destructive behaviours, such as trying to control them, guilt-tripping their partner if they don’t do as they wish, or looking for evidence of them slipping up so they can be proven ‘right’.

It took me a long time to learn that when it comes to romance, really it’s the woman holding all the cards. But, because we’re so busy trying to work out what cards the man opposite us is playing, we fail to see that we’ve already got a winning hand ourselves.

Stepping into our inherent power as a woman, our FEMININE power as a woman (being open, receptive, compassionate, nurturing, creative, collaborative) creates space for a man to step into his inherent power as a man. And that, inevitably, feels really good to him.

When we women operate from a more masculine approach to dating and relationships by trying to manoeuvre and control the dynamic at every turn, we give the man no choice but to assume the feminine position. This tends not to go down so well - unless the man is looking for someone to take his mother’s place, in which case… RUN.
Next up, the subservience problem. On the flip-side, I found myself settling for less than the best, for less than I was worthy and deserving of because I believed that being out of control in romance was my fate and destiny.

Many of the high-achieving women I come across these days experience this too: they accept shitty behaviour from men that they would never tolerate from clients, colleagues or bosses.

I get why; I’ve been there. No matter how proud I felt of the life and success I was creating for myself, it was often still painful to watch the majority of my peers ticking their way through the arbitrary romantic timeline: falling in love, moving in, getting engaged, married, pregnant – you know the drill. This, coupled with society’s insistence on measuring a woman’s worth according to her relationship status - never mind being constantly reminded that our fertility is dwindling with every passing year – makes it easy to see why so many brilliant women cling to men who seem to value them even less than Gwyneth Paltrow values gluten.

If this resonates, what you need to understand is that the real issue here is not, in fact, these men who are treating you like dirt. The real issue is how YOU are showing up (or not showing up) in a romantic context that’s not only determining the quality of men that you’re attracting but also the level of respect these men have for you - and subsequently, how they behave towards you.

If you want to feel as empowered and successful in love as you do in work, then you must demonstrate the same level of self-respect in romance that you do in your career. In
other words, when it comes to love you need to decide what your bottom line is. And, if or when that bottom line is crossed, rather than trying to negotiate your way through what is clearly a no-win deal, you must have the dignity and courage to walk away. That’s what a good CEO would do.

SOME SUCCESS STORIES

"Before working with Persia my self worth and confidence were at an all time low. But, today I honestly feel like a completely different person. I’m now in a new relationship with an amazing man who makes me feel so respected, valued and supported. I have also lost weight and even my bank account is looking healthier than before! Investing in this program was the best decision I could have made."

Rachel

“Before I started working with Persia I found myself constantly spending time with guys that didn’t seem to want anything serious; having never experienced a committed relationship I felt as though I must be doing something wrong. Working with Persia has completely changed how I approach relationships, and I’ve since dated guys who treat me with respect and I’ve been much more open. I can see real, tangible changes in my life as a result of it.”

Katie-Jane

SOME SUCCESS STORIES

Rachel

"Before working with Persia my-self worth and confidence were at an all time low. But, today I honestly feel like a completely different person. I’m now in a new relationship with an amazing man who makes me feel so respected, valued and supported. I have also lost weight and even my bank account is looking healthier than before! Investing in this program was the best decision I could have made."

Katie-Jane

“Before I started working with Persia I found myself constantly spending time with guys that didn’t seem to want anything serious; having never experienced a committed relationship I felt as though I must be doing something wrong. Working with Persia has completely changed how I approach relationships, and I’ve since dated guys who treat me with respect and I’ve been much more open. I can see real, tangible changes in my life as a result of it.”

The Investment

PAY IN FULL

(Best Value, Saving £1,000)

£10,000+VAT

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4 monthly payments of £2750+VAT


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PAY IN FULL

(Best Value, Saving £1,000)

£10,000+VAT

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4 monthly payments of £2750+VAT

IF YOU'RE SOMEONE WHO:

  • Has climbed the career ladder or built a business but feels their love life is lacking compared to their work-life
  • ​Is reaping the financial rewards for their efforts and is feeling disheartened and disappointed that they have no one to share their success with
  • ​Is driven and determined to find ‘the one’ for them, but not at the expense of all they’ve achieved
  • ​Is feeling exhausted and frustrated that their usual ethos doesn’t seem to work in the romance department
  • ​Has trouble leaning into their feminine energy of vulnerability and intimacy even if they long and yearn to
...then this 1:1 mentorship program is the answer you’ve been searching for!

IF YOU'RE SOMEONE WHO:

  • Has climbed the career ladder or built a business but feels their love life is lacking compared to their work-life
  • ​Is reaping the financial rewards for their efforts and is feeling disheartened and disappointed that they have no one to share their success with
  • ​Is driven and determined to find ‘the one’ for them, but not at the expense of all they’ve achieved
  • ​Is feeling exhausted and frustrated that their usual ethos doesn’t seem to work in the romance department
  • ​Has trouble leaning into their feminine energy of vulnerability and intimacy even if they long and yearn to
...then this 1:1 mentorship program is the answer you’ve been searching for!

DURING THE COURSE OF THE PROGRAM, I'LL SHARE WITH YOU:

  • ​The 3-Step Process That Reveals The Real Reason Your Love Life’s Not Working
  • ​How To Eliminate The Destructive Behaviours And Limiting Beliefs That Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships
  • ​The Single Revelation That Will Set You Up For Romantic Success
  • ​How To Let Go Of What No Longer Serves You And Create Space For Your Ideal Relationship
  • 3 Strategies That Will Stop You From Settling And Instantly Enhance Your Magnetism
  • ​5 Important Questions That Will Help You Attract Real Love
  • The Secret To Getting The Healthy, Committed, Soulful Relationship You Deserve





Want to learn all that and more? Hit a button to apply and let's see if it's a fit.















NONE OF US WERE TAUGHT HOW TO HAVE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS GROWING UP – WHICH IS ABSURD TO ME, BECAUSE LOOK WHAT’S HAPPENING TO OUR WORLD AS A RESULT.

If you want a healthy and satisfying love life that goes beyond what today’s swipe culture has to offer, you’re going to have to take full responsibility for learning how to get it. Seriously, had I not dealt with my relationship issues when I did, I would’ve undoubtedly ended up marrying (and divorcing) the wrong man rather than being engaged to be married to the right one. And that wouldn’t have served anyone.

In fact, I’m convinced that if we as a society spent more time and resources teaching people how to have healthy relationships from an earlier age, we’d dramatically decrease the likelihood of divorce, addiction and family breakdowns – and all the complicated crap that goes along with them.

And given everything that’s going on in the world with respect to the coronavirus pandemic (especially the dramatic rise in divorce filings and concern over how this global pause is reducing single women’s chance to have children), romantic health and empowerment have never been more important than they are right now.

THE WORLD NEEDS HAPPY, HEALTHY POWER COUPLES

You’ve probably heard the phrase “Behind every successful man, there is a strong woman”... well the times are changing, and now you get to be both successful and strong.

But that doesn’t mean you have to go it alone.

Reclaim your birthright to meet your match - a successful man who’s inspired and motivated by you and wants to watch you live out your purpose. A supportive soulmate who’s happy to help you as you pave your way in the world. A true partner who’s got your back, but also has his own goals for the future. Someone you can share a vision with, a misson with. Someone you can make an impact with, and together, leave the world a better place than you found it.

If that’s something you want, rest assured this coaching container will help you get it.

HERE'S WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT TO ANYTHING YOU'VE ENCOUNTERED BEFORE...

One
It prioritises your relationship with you
I’m not interested in giving you BS quick fixes to resolve your love life issues, because they don’t work in the long term. Through my 1:1 coaching, I provide you with tips and tricks to solve your problems from the inside out. The work of getting a soulful, lasting relationship is an internal job, and so the inner work and how you show up in your love life is our primary focus. (Focus on the insides, and the outsides take care of themselves).
Two
It's a program of ACTION
Just as you like to take action in your professional life, now’s the time to take action in your love life too. We won’t just sit around discussing all of the areas in which you’re struggling, we’ll take confident and consistent steps towards achieving the relationship you desire and deserve, so that by the end of our time together, you’re exactly where you need to be to find the partner you want.
Three
It improves your ENTIRE LIFE
Our romantic lives are not lived in isolation; they influence (and are influenced by) each and every other area of our life, including the relationships we have with friends, with family, with co-workers, with our jobs and careers, our businesses, our wealth and our health. You will be surprised to see that when you heal your relationship with you, the wounding in your relationship with other things - from your nearest and dearest, to your work, to food, to your body, and to money - heals as well. Past clients of mine have reported how other areas of their lives significantly improved as a result of doing this work… 

HERE'S WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT TO ANYTHING YOU'VE ENCOUNTERED BEFORE...

One
It prioritises your relationship with you
I’m not interested in giving you BS quick fixes to resolve your love life issues, because they don’t work in the long term. Through my 1:1 coaching, I provide you with tips and tricks to solve your problems from the inside out. The work of getting a soulful, lasting relationship is an internal job, and so the inner work and how you show up in your love life is our primary focus. (Focus on the insides, and the outsides take care of themselves).
Two
It's a program of ACTION
Just as you like to take action in your professional life, now’s the time to take action in your love life too. We won’t just sit around discussing all of the areas in which you’re struggling, we’ll take confident and consistent steps towards achieving the relationship you desire and deserve, so that by the end of our time together, you’re exactly where you need to be to find the partner you want.
Three
It improves your ENTIRE LIFE
Our romantic lives are not lived in isolation; they influence (and are influenced by) each and every other area of our life, including the relationships we have with friends, with family, with co-workers, with our jobs and careers, our businesses, our wealth and our health. You will be surprised to see that when you heal your relationship with you, the wounding in your relationship with other things - from your nearest and dearest, to your work, to food, to your body, and to money - heals as well. Past clients of mine have reported how other areas of their lives significantly improved as a result of doing this work… 

EVEN MORE AMAZING TESTIMONIALS

"Remember you predicted I’d meet someone at the end of last year? Well I did, and due to Covid-19 we’re now living together and it’s just been going from strength to strength, not one fight. Very in love right now and very happy. Thank you. I couldn’t have done it without you."

Emma

"What a whirl the last few months have been! Without this program I wouldn't be in a relationship right now. Best investment in myself I've ever made!"


Fleur

EVEN MORE AMAZING TESTIMONIALS

Emma

"Remember you predicted I’d meet someone at the end of last year? Well I did, and due to Covid-19 we’re now living together and it’s just been going from strength to strength, not one fight. Very in love right now and very happy. Thank you. I couldn’t have done it without you."

Fleur

"What a whirl the last few months have been! Without this program I wouldn't be in a relationship right now. Best investment in myself I've ever made!"

The Investment

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IF YOU WANT A QUICK TRANSFORMATION 
YOU NEED A REALLY IMMERSIVE EXPERIENCE

There’s no use dipping your toes in, you have to dive deep.

This 4 month coaching container is intensive, but rightly so. It’s designed to get you results as quickly and efficiently as possible, because I know you have so many other places you want and need to direct your energy and focus.

If you’re an action taker who wants to set yourself up for success in your love life so it’s as rich as your work life, look no further than this coaching container.

However, due to the intimate nature of this work, I can only accept a few qualified clients at any one time, to make sure I’m serving them to the best of my ability and able to devote the necessary time and energy so that they feel supported.

You therefore will need to go through two rounds of qualification - first, an application form and then a chemistry call - to make sure this is a fit for both of us.

If you’re a high-achieving career woman or business owner who wants to become as successful at love as you are at work, and you have (or can generate) the funds to support that goal, hit a button on this page to apply.
HEADS UP: MY VISION AND MISSION IS TO WORK WITH WOMEN WHO ARE DOING COOL SHIT IN THE WORLD. FOR WHOM A RELATIONSHIP IS THE CHERRY ON TOP OF AN ALREADY ICED CAKE.

The Investment

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The Investment

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FAQS

What exactly do I get with the coaching container?
7x 1-hour coaching sessions, access to 7x intensive modules from my flagship program Get Your Soulmate, bonus masterclasses, walkie talkie access to me for the duration plus an in-person 3-course meal at a Soho House in London* with me to celebrate your transformation over a glass of champagne. 

*If you’re unable or unwilling to travel, this can be exchanged for a 1 hour Zoom call.
Is this coaching right for me? Meaning, will it “work” for me?
Everyone’s situation is different and of course I can’t guarantee results, but I can give you the EXACT blueprint to heal your love life and attract a healthy, soulful, lasting relationship – with all the tools, strategies and step-by-step hand-holding.

I’ve taken dozens and dozens of my 1:1 love-coaching clients through this same process, and they’ve told me how their entire world has been turned upside down as a result of doing this work – how the transformation has been nothing short of miraculous, how they can’t believe a romantic relationship could ever feel so good, how they’re now getting married or having babies because of going through this process, and how doing this program was the best decision of their entire life (I think results like this speak for themselves!)

The key “requirement” for the program is definitely being an action-taker and being “coachable.” Also, a real desire to not only learn, but actually implement the work in to your life. I genuinely wish I’d had this program when my love life was a mess 8 years ago.

How much time will I need to invest in this program?
Doing the work on your love life does require a significant time and energy investment if you want to see big results – a very rough estimate would be around 2-3 hours a week including our coaching calls. 
What do I need to start?
A journal for you to complete the assignments - we recommend A4 with plenty of space. Persia’s book The Inner Fix would also be a great addition to the coaching.
What type of work will I be doing in the program?
Together, we’ll be examining how your childhood has impacted all your romantic relationships and interactions, integrate tools and exercises to dramatically increase your self worth and heal past wounds, and we’ll also get you clear on the unique qualities and attributes that will attract your soulmate and make them fall in love with you - fast. 
Is it possible to do a one-off session with you instead?
I’m afraid not. I’m dedicated to helping my clients achieve big results and lasting transformation in their love life, which simply isn’t possible in a one-off session because of the depth and breadth of the work required.
How is this different from therapy or other programs?
This coaching container is unique in that it combines my soulful, intuitive coaching style with practical, tangible tools and techniques that create powerful results - both internally and externally. 

I don’t believe in a ‘one size fits all’ approach, so will create a bespoke plan to ensure you get the biggest possible transformation.

This process will comprise of some intensive healing work, elements of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (which I’m trained in), as well as more direct, goal-orientated exercises.

I guarantee that by the end of the coaching you’ll be stunned by how far you’ve come and hugely excited for your future.
Do you work with LGBTQ clients?
Of course! Whilst the majority of my clients tend to be heterosexual females, the techniques you’ll learn are non-gender or sexual-orientation specific; they can work for anyone as long as they really want them to and are willing to put in the effort required.
Can I pay in instalments?
Yes, I appreciate that this is an investment for some and paying monthly instalments sometimes makes more financial sense - we can discuss this in the application process.

FAST-TRACK YOUR WAY TO LOVE SUCCESS

You’re a busy woman. You don’t have time to bumble along until you stumble upon a relationship that will ‘do’. Take the guesswork out of finding your soulmate by working with me in this intensive 1:1 fashion. You’ll have access to me for 4 months to really deep dive into where you’ve been going wrong and how to move forward, so that you can finally, finally become as successful at love as you are at work.

Next Steps

Select a date and time for your chemistry call with me and fill out your application form (N.B. if you don't answer all questions the scheduler won't accept your booking).

If, having read your application form, I’m not confident I can get you the results you’re after, we will get in touch ahead of your call to let you know as I value your time as much as mine.

YET MORE LOVE STORIES

“For most of my dating life, I’ve been stuck in an endless loop of chasing the wrong guys and being way too available. And then BAM, Persia came into my world like the lightning bolt I needed. The changes I’ve experienced since working with her are countless. What sticks out most is the shifts I’ve experienced around boundaries and knowing my worth. I no longer feel like I need to be a chameleon in relationships – I’m more than okay with being and asserting myself. This wouldn’t have been possible without Persia’s guidance and genuine passion. Her work is unparalleled.”

Britt

"I don't know where to begin to thank you for this amazing, literally life-transforming experience. At the start of the programme, I knew it would help, but had absolutely NO idea of the depth of transformation that was to come. Matthew Hussey's or Mark Groves' programmes come nowhere near the stratospheric amount of input and life-changing content of your work. It is utterly unique and of inestimable value. I can confirm that after working with you I am a completely different person." 

Madeleine

YET MORE LOVE STORIES

Britt

“For most of my dating life, I’ve been stuck in an endless loop of chasing the wrong guys and being way too available. And then BAM, Persia came into my world like the lightning bolt I needed. The changes I’ve experienced since working with her are countless. What sticks out most is the shifts I’ve experienced around boundaries and knowing my worth. I no longer feel like I need to be a chameleon in relationships – I’m more than okay with being and asserting myself. This wouldn’t have been possible without Persia’s guidance and genuine passion. Her work is unparalleled.”

Madeleine

"I don't know where to begin to thank you for this amazing, literally life-transforming experience. At the start of the programme, I knew it would help, but had absolutely NO idea of the depth of transformation that was to come. Matthew Hussey's or Mark Groves' programmes come nowhere near the stratospheric amount of input and life-changing content of your work. It is utterly unique and of inestimable value. I can confirm that after working with you I am a completely different person." 
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Client Testimonials. As with any coaching program, your results using Love For Leaders may vary from these client testimonials. Your results will be primarily based on your level of effort and commitment to the work set out in the program, therefore we cannot guarantee your success – nor are we responsible for your success or failure. We believe we provide you with brilliant tools, insights and strategies to help you achieve the results you desire for your love life.