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I'm Persia...

...an Author, Speaker & Love Coach passionate about helping YOU find (and keep) a healthy, soulful, lasting relationship in the chaos of the modern dating world.


I'm Persia...

...an Author, Speaker & Love Coach passionate about helping YOU find (and keep) a healthy, soulful, lasting relationship in the chaos of the modern dating world.

Having once been a serial cheater and obsessive love addict, I’m proud to now be in a great relationship that inspires and challenges me daily (and isn’t the least bit boring, as I always feared a ‘healthy’ relationship would be).   

So, if you find yourself heartbroken, struggle with intimacy, self-sabotage & picking unavailable lovers (like I used to) - or you feel overwhelmed by the online dating scene - you're in the right place.
"It has been incredible to witness Persia step into her power as a leader for a new generation. This woman is a beautiful guide & mentor for us all!"

- Gabrielle Bernstein, New York Times No. 1 Bestselling Author, Speaker & Coach

Through my new book, Love is Coming: How to Find Real Love in a Superficial World, my top 10 podcast (also called Love is Coming) and my digital and 121 love-coaching programs, I’ve spent the last 9 years dedicated to helping women like you lead happier, more fulfilling love lives. 

Which, if you know my back story, is somewhat of a miracle.
“Persia has huge personal experience when it comes to matters of love, life and relationships and you’ll always find her ready to share her super-insight in order to help others. I can’t think of anyone better to be a love coach.”

- Harriet Jones, Former Deputy Editor, Brides Magazine



















LET ME REWIND...

As I share in Love is Coming, my parents struggled with addiction until I was about 16.

Whilst I was so grateful when they both got sober, I’d spent the majority of my life constantly surrounded by drama and chaos, so when that suddenly disappeared I went looking for it in my love life instead. 

I was so terrified of being hurt like I had been growing up that I’d sabotage any chance of a happy relationship – either by cheating on the nice boyfriends I had, or going out with dysfunctional ‘bad boys’ so that I’d never have to risk real intimacy or commitment.

This pattern continued well in to my 20s - fuelled further by the rise of the swipe culture of social media and online dating apps that made it easier and more tempting to play away, and harder and less desirable to try and maintain a steady, long-term relationship. 
"Persia is a beautiful paradox because she is effervescent with wildness, yet also has a quiet resolve for consistent love.”

- Charlie Mackesy, Artist & Sunday Times Bestselling Author of The Boy The Mole, The Fox and The Horse 

My rock bottom moment came in 2010 when I found myself working as a hostess in a London strip club, where I was sexually assaulted. 

Following this incident, I put on two stone whilst on an acting job in Shanghai, prompting my concerned dad to take me away to a health retreat in Thailand. 

Whilst there, he gave me some profound advice: 

"Focus on the insides, and the outsides will take care of themselves."

Here began my spiritual journey into healing the real root of all my romantic dilemmas: my relationship with myself.

Long story short...

Two painful yet enlightening break-ups (and a whole lot of therapy) later...

I found myself training as a life coach and setting up a positive lifestyle movement called Addictive Daughter with a friend from drama school, to help those struggling through a ‘quarter-life crisis’, as we once had been.  

However, despite landing a book deal and being hailed “irreverent British gurus” by Marie Claire magazine, something in me knew I still had a lot of growing to do – particularly in my love life. 

As I was working on the first draft of my and my friend's book,The Inner Fix, in mid-2015, I’d been single for a year and a half (a long time for me).

During this writing period, I spent every morning meditating, journaling and getting connected through music to help heal my issues around my love life - as well as to prepare me to receive the loving, soulful relationship I’d always dreamed of having, but feared I’d never be able to sustain. 

These daily rituals also inspired me to share my desire to meet my ‘Twin Flame’ in the 'Love' chapter of The Inner Fix – a spiritual concept describing a special soul connection between two people who often experience ‘love at first sight,’ and commit to growing together in friendship & intimacy as a couple.
Two days after writing those words, I met my Twin Flame in a secret rave at Wilderness festival in Oxfordshire – and it was very much love at first sight.

Soon, I found myself in the best relationship of my life by far.

And I'm still in that relationship 6 years later (in fact, we're engaged to be married and have recently bought our first house together in the Surrey Hills just outside of London - along with a golden cockapoo puppy called Reggae!)

My life today is not what I thought it would look like, but it feels better than I ever imagined it could. I feel enough. He feels enough. Our relationship feels enough. I finally feel satisfied.
As a result, I’m far more available, giving and successful in every other area of my life too, because I’m not wasting time and energy obsessing over someone who’ll never be able to give me what I want, or hurting someone because I know I’ll never be able to give them what they want.

But, I’ll be straight with you right now: I’m far from perfect in this area.  

In fact, I can be a passive aggressive, naggy, nightmare of a partner at times. My fella Joe isn't perfect, either – and our relationship definitely isn't perfect. 

However, we’re both committed to working on ourselves and on ‘us’, and that really has made all the difference.

Unexpectedly, a few months after The Inner Fix came out (and a year into my relationship with Joe), my friend and I both felt called to step back from Addictive Daughter and pursue our own individual passions in work.

I instantly knew that for me, that would be love and relationships - the area where I’ve struggled the most, but also where I’ve experienced the biggest transformation.

“Through her blend of dirty humour, deep wisdom and girlfriend style pep talking, Persia will help you understand yourself so you can find and keep a healthy relationship. I am forever grateful for her much needed work.”

- Mel Wells, Bestselling Author of The Goddess Revolution, Speaker & Coach 



















This brings me to you...

I want you to know that if I can have a great relationship, you can, too.

I know you can. 

Because I believe that the reason you’re really here is to grow.

I believe that when you open yourself to growth, you’ll attract the person or situation that’ll heal and grow you the most.

I also believe that, though this process is painful and scary at times, it’s well worth sticking with if you want to experience genuine, soul-expanding love and connection. 

Look, I know this world’s got bigger problems than whether you and I are happy in our love lives, but at the same time, had I not dealt with my relationship issues when I did I would’ve undoubtedly ended up marrying (and divorcing) the wrong man – and that wouldn’t have served anyone.

In fact, I’m convinced that if we as a society spent more time and resources teaching people how to have healthy relationships from an earlier age...

(which has NOTHING to do with how may 'likes', 'followers' or 'matches' we're able to garner!)

... we’d dramatically decrease the likelihood of divorce, addiction & family breakdowns – and all the complicated crap that goes along with them. 
To find out more about working with me,
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““Current, sassy, relatable, grounded, funny and honest, Persia is lighting the way for a new generation of women to live more happy, more conscious lives from the inside out.”

- Rebecca Campbell, Bestselling Author of 
Light Is The New Black & Rise Sister Rise

Thank You...

...for taking the time to read to the end.

Keep scrolling for a free resource!
I’d also love to welcome you into my exclusive Facebook group, The Love is Coming Lounge, where I regularly answer your dating/relationship dilemmas & questions, and where you can connect with my amazing tribe of women on the same journey as you.

Word of warning: this group isn’t a space for the easily offended (I swear like a sailor and don’t see this changing anytime soon). But it is full of hugely useful insights & tools that I turn to again and again in my own love life. 

Can’t wait to get to know you more and support you in any way I can.
All my love,
Persia xx


















"Persia provides a fresh, intelligent perspective on the issues that so many Gen Y-ers face today. I have to say that when you speak to her, you get how much this matters to her - her passion and dedication to her work is truly inspiring!"

- Dr Linda Papadopoulos, Psychologist, Broadcast & Author

By the way...

...If your love life currently feels like a hot mess, like mine used to, I hope my story has shown you that it's never too late to make changes for the better.

It really isn’t. 

And because I’m deeply passionate about helping you get BIG results - fast, I’ve created a powerful resource to get you started...

Free Audio Training

THE FASTEST WAY TO MEET YOUR SOULMATE

Learn how to court consciously during Covid and call in the happy, healthy relationship you desire and deserve.
Here's what you'll learn...
  • What a happy, healthy relationship really looks like and exactly what I did to meet my match.
  • The single most important thing you need to know to totally transform your love life that will kick to the curb all anxiety and fear that you'll be 'single forever'.
  • The foolproof strategy you should be following to consciously call in suitors that can be sped up by a game I also share, to keep the process playful!
  • ​My 5 step roadmap for not just getting but keeping your soulmate, no matter how bad at dating you've been in the past or how much of a mess you usually make.
















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Let's have some fun...

GET TO KNOW ME BETTER

Most dating apps these days offer prompts to help break the ice. 
With that in mind, here are some fun facts about me:

1. Sign from the Universe?
Dinosaurs🦕 (My book, Love is Coming, explains how they led me to meet Joe at Wilderness festival - weird, but true!).
2. Favourite Country?
It's a toss up between India, Nepal & Costa Rica. (I was a bit of a nomad pre-covid... I've also lived in Canada & Russia - and Joe and I travelled the world together for 6 months in 2017).
3. Happy place?
Festivals (are you spotting a theme here...) As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said: 'Life is a festival only to the wise.' 
4. Top skill?
Either speaking (I used to be an actress) or writing (I actually got the top score in the country in my English Literature GCSE!)
5. Words to live by?
'Stop looking OUTSIDE of yourself for the partner you want to GET and start looking INSIDE of yourself for the partner you want to BE.'

Would you swipe right?

Let's have some fun...

GET TO KNOW ME BETTER

Most dating apps these days offer prompts to help break the ice. 
With that in mind, here are some fun facts about me:

1. Sign from the Universe?
Dinosaurs🦕 (My book, Love is Coming, explains how they led me to meet Joe at Wilderness festival - weird, but true!).
2. Favourite Country?
It's a toss up between India, Nepal & Costa Rica. (I was a bit of a nomad pre-covid... I've also lived in Canada & Russia - and Joe and I travelled the world together for 6 months in 2017).
3. Happy place?
Festivals (are you spotting a theme here...) As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said: 'Life is a festival only to the wise.' 
4. Top skill?
Either speaking (I used to be an actress) or writing (I actually got the top score in the country in my English Literature GCSE!)
5. Words to live by?
'Stop looking OUTSIDE of yourself for the partner you want to GET and start looking INSIDE of yourself for the partner you want to BE.'

Would you swipe right?

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